Randy Alcorn spoke to a group of young moms at Mom to Mom at his local church, Good Shepherd Community Church on various topics. In this clip, Randy talks about children and their fear of Heaven.
What Should I Do If My Spouse Doesn't Want Me to Talk to Our Children about Heaven?
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I would encourage you to talk to your husband again in a respectful, humble, gracious way and simply share your heart with him. Ask him how he would like you to respond to your kids when they ask questions.